Mataio (Matt) and Sarah Brown MNZM are internationally recognised New Zealand-based advocates, authors, and communicators committed to eradicating family violence by inspiring a new generation of cycle breakers. Together, they co-founded the global movement She Is Not Your Rehab, first introduced in Matt’s groundbreaking 2019 TEDx talk, The Barbershop Where Men Go to Heal.
The concept emerged from a decade of transformative conversations Matt held with men in his barbershops, via men’s groups and through his prison programs. These conversations invited men to confront their childhood trauma, take responsibility for healing, and disrupt cycles of intergenerational harm. Since its inception, the couple have worked relentlessly to redefine masculinity, advance mental health equity, and make family violence prevention both accessible and culturally resonant.
Their number one bestselling book, She Is Not Your Rehab, first published in 2021, has inspired countless people around the world, and is followed by their debut children’s book released in 2025, This Is Not Yours to Carry.
The Men and Family Centre are very happy to host Matt and Sarah at the Byron Community Theatre on Monday, 16 November at 6.30pm.
In their powerful keynote message, Mataio and Sarah share their innovative and revolutionary approaches to addressing family violence, emphasising the pivotal role of community and collective healing in breaking the cycle of intergenerational trauma while passionately advocating for healthy masculinity role modelling.
Matt and Sarah encourage men to overcome shame while taking responsibility for their own healing. Their message inspires a transformative journey towards healthy relationships and cultural shifts that challenge ingrained norms to foster a safer, more empathetic and holistic society.
This will be an inspiring evening. Tickets from byron.sales.ticketsearch.com/sales/salesevent/169838.
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