Recently my beloved husband passed away after a sudden and brief battle with cancer.
While experiencing indescribable grief during this time of loss I went in search of a local grief support group to connect with others who were also experiencing the emotions of loss, and who understood and know what I am going through.
I’m very aware of how connecting with others with shared experiences is helpful to the healing process, how in a group there is shared commonality. Perhaps a group connection could help me shift the narrative from helplessness to coping.
To my great disappointment I found nothing, in the places I looked anyway. For something that is an inevitable part of life and the trauma that those left behind may endure, I can’t understand that there is no local grief support group.
There are wonderful support groups for those living with such things as breast cancer, dementia, prostate cancer, and anxiety to name a few. NSW Health provided a list of counselling services for one-on-one phone consultations, and while I appreciate that might be helpful for some, I am looking for face-to-face connection.
The world I woke up to after the death of my husband has changed, it’s a massive adjustment. The fact that there doesn’t seem to be a support group to help with the process of working through this human experience with others eludes me.


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